Blindfolded by negative thoughts
I feel sad for other people’s sorrow and depression, I see no need for sadness. I guess without sadness you won’t know what’s happiness but sometimes, when people get upset over unnecessary things, this is SAD.
No matter what happens to you, there will always be someone who is going through worse, I am not saying look up to yourself and look down on others but notice that your suffering might not be so bad as you think. Moreover, never forget that everything has an end, yes everything has an end. There are ups and downs in life , we only actually feel the downs so bad and painfully because we don’t spend enough time appreciating the good and ups that happen to us. We are too used to it that when we face a down we panic, get frustrated and despair.
No matter what you are going through, always and I mean ALWAYS keep a positive mind. When facing a problem do not just say ” Oh fuck my life and moan about it.” you obviously need to find a solution and being upset about the situation is not called finding a solution. Additionally, if you sit around and have negative thoughts it won’t lead you anywhere good either, so pour some positive thoughts into your mind and smile more.
Just some things I’ve noticed that should be paid attention to in life:
Sometimes it is necessary to try to put your feet into other people’s shoes, sometimes it is necessary to listen and accept other people’s opinions.
Sometimes it’s necessary to see beyond actions, to perhaps see if you have done wrong firstly before accusing others.
Self-love is good, but you do not love yourself enough when you allow yourself to be over sensitive and angry.
Open your eyes and your mind, look around and notice how people treat you, are they treating you in a way in which you should be grateful for? Do you see what people do and go through just for you? Do you see how much certain people love and care for you? Well, then here you got a few more things to be happy about and reasons to keep your self calm, content and smiling.
Another very important thing, nobody is perfect everybody will hurt you some how sometime some where in life and you will have to get over it because it’s the most humane thing that people do. Learning to forgive and forget is harder than learning complex math, but it’s absolutely worth the time and energy.
“To hurt is as human as to breathe.” - J.K. Rowling